Two clocks run at once and they do not agree. Senior living often asks for money before the house closes, so the move-in date and the sale date pull against each other. Most people feel that pressure and rush the house onto the market before it is ready, or freeze because the whole thing feels like too much at the wrong time.
Distance makes it heavier. Half the people I work with live in another state. You cannot let the cleanout crew in, meet the contractor, or walk the rooms yourself, so the house sits and the questions pile up. A home packed with decades of belongings feels impossible to even start on from three states away.
Then the paperwork. Selling under a power of attorney, a trust, or an estate follows specific rules in Georgia, and if that is not sorted early it stalls the whole move. A parent with dementia, a house held in trust, a deed nobody can find, all of it needs to be handled before a sale can close.
Siblings rarely land in the same place at the same time. One wants to sell now for the care money. One wants to hold. One wants to renovate first. Everyone is grieving a change and reading the same house differently.